If his nine-year marriage to Courteney Cox-Arquette is any indication, David Arquette has the secret to a successful relationship all figured out. Arquette shared his strategy for a healthy marriage with Bonnie Hunt today on ‘The Bonnie Hunt Show’ (weekdays, syndicated).

“There’s a lot to relationships in general. You just have to really work at them. They’re not easy, and you have to … be kind to each other and … figure out what each other’s … buttons are and figure out how not to push them,” Arquette said. “You can’t leave your heart open. You have to be committed.”